A.K.A. The Douchebag

So I promised I would rant about my ex-brother-in-law.  When I mentioned him in my last post, he was especially on my mind because of some texting bullshit he said to my sister.  Something along the lines of how unbearably miserable she was to even converse with, that he supported her for seven plus years and every morsel of food that went into her mouth was paid for, that she doesn't care about anyone except herself and that he's on his way to being the "healthiest and happiest" he's ever been and doesn't need her to interfere with that.  Keep in mind that my sister is one of the most amazing people I have in my life.  Over the past three plus years, she has endured the following:

• Recovering addict husband who fell off the wagon BIG time
• Extreme verbal abuse from said addict husband
• Multiple relapses with drugs and alcohol by said douchebag husband
• Douchebag's affair with a complete whorebag, who he then MOVES IN WITH!
• Continuous lies about EVERYTHING...which leads to (among other things) my sister losing her house because he said he paid the mortgage for 8 months, intercepted notices from the bank and actually didn't pay a dime.
• Non payment of child support
• Etc...etc....etc...I could go on forever.

Officially they are divorced and my sister has her maiden name back.  (Yay!)  But they are still working out the custody arrangement.  My sister has full physical custody and is still trying to get full legal.  He has visitation 3x per week, 2 hours at a time...supervised.  (Which should be a clear indication that no judge thinks he is safe to be alone with his children.)We all know that he will fall off the wagon again...the question is when.

After an extremely weird afternoon/evening dealing with supervising the kids for my sister and putting up with all of his bullshit, I went home and told Itchy about it.  Itchy got pretty upset and asked me to not supervise anymore.  I have to agree with him.  I think that S isn't all there.  His emotions are volatile and his narcissistic, manipulative behavior is just plain upsetting to the whole family.  My sister has suggested that we have a family meeting and all agree to say no the next time S asks one of us to supervise.   The only people I'm worried about being on board are my parents.  But I think we can convince them.

So....in a really, really tiny nutshell, that is the story behind the douchbag ex that my sister is having to deal with.  I have a one-of-a-kind husband, a great mom and dad, two super awesome sisters and the cutest nieces ever.  Now if the dirty ass smudge on the windshield of my life could just be washed away.  That would be perfect.  I want my sister to experience carefree joy in her life again and be rid of the scum that is sucking it all out of her.

Okay.  Rant over.